Cooking, loving and hating by a regular inebriate, master thesis-dodger, pseudo-foodie and all-round trouble maker.

Friday 16 August 2013

Oef!

Still coming to terms with the loss of baby girl, and it has been rough. Like always though, when it rains it really pours. I have flu, some strange energy-sapping strain. I am not surprised because I am not built for winter at all. Happily, I spied a handful of naive blossoms on the tree outside. Perhaps things will turn sweeter again soon.

Today I'll be hunting for my camera charger because I miss taking pictures.I have also been busy thesis-ing and I am so so grateful to the university and to my Prof for keeping me busy and out of trouble. My prof recently lost his beloved, aged, special needs cat and after mourning for a while he was ready to take on a new companion. I hooked him up with a wonderful welfarist who runs an awesome no-kill organisation where, after home checks etc, he decided to adopt THREE lovely, joyous kittens. He named the Viola, Sebastian and Ferdi - after the characters once lost and then found. He is THRILLED with them. When next we visited he had cat scratch posts and anti-ant bowls and the works. And they are too gorgeous.

I suppose if we look hard enough, we'll find joy and love and beauty SOMEWHERE. And knowing that spring is coming makes it easier to look forward.


PS: I recently attended my cousin's wedding in the frock Jane helped me pick out many moons ago. Sans the shape wear and her fresh, excellent advice I struggled to get into it. I remember now why I hate it so much! Just a few days before the wedding I noticed the store where Jane worked and the frock was purchased burnt to the ground (no injury or loss of life). I think that the inventors of 'bridal sizing' should see this as an omen.

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  1. How lovely that your professor adopted 3 kitty-babies! I love cats, but my husband doesn't. When my husband and I were first together, my cat was quite put out that he was hanging around and would trip him every opportunity. We eventually decided to move in together and a week before moving into our new home, he asked if I had found another home for my cat. What??!!! I explained that it was a package deal - it was me + cat, or nothing. And, believe me, I was totally serious....I had had the cat longer than I had had him! :-) He adjusted to living with my cat, but when she passed away at 16 years of age, he asked that we not share our home with another cat. I agreed, but every once in a while, I ask if we can have one, just in case his views on cats has changed. No such luck.....yet. :-)

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    1. It was actually wonderful for cats and Prof. You know he had a special needs cat and he'd have to get specialist care for her when he went away and so I think when she finally went of old age he was so incredibly lonely. I didn't realise what impact it made on him until I visited after and he constantly brought up how his life is transformed by them. He does live alone though! Ahh no I hope one day you can twist hubby's arm. I could never not live with cats - such charming, smug little creatures with huge personalities!

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